But then, one day, I made discipline work for me. It wasn't a drill sergeant's discipline, or a nagging parental discipline "Put your clothes away or no cookies for you!" No, it was my own discipline. One I made myself.
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I'm here in Los Angeles pursuing big dreams. There's no way to do that without some discipline. To be a leading man, I have to be in great shape. I trained almost as much as an athlete would, 6 days a week for at least an hour at a time. I didn't always feel like it, but I made myself do it because there is something I want. I have written two books, nine movies, and completed a master's degree. These are things that you can only do by having patience and discipline. Big things. But you can do them, and the secret is discipline, but also faith.
Why do you need faith? Because every day when you take that tiny step toward the finish, you don't seem closer to your goal. When you exercise one time, you don't suddenly look fantastic. When you write five pages, you don't suddenly have a book. When you finish one class, you have only a tiny part of your degree. So, you have to believe. You believe that if you keep working, doing just your little bit every day, one day you will wake up and be at your goal. Another part of the secret is to enjoy what you are doing. Don't keep thinking about the finished product. Enjoy what you are doing. In my case, I enjoyed the exercise, the writing, the classes. I also took them day by day. Just do a day's work on them, every day.
Remember, going toward every goal, there will be setbacks. Part of discipline is accepting that, and moving on. As I usually say to myself, you get knocked off, you just get up and get back on that horse. (Yes, I know, I don't really have a horse.) Sometimes I might get sick, or a crisis might interrupt my goal. But after it has passed, you just get back on going. Keep going, never stop.
Discipline will serve you well. If you can make yourself do things your body or your mind don't really want to do, but you know in your heart you want to do, then you will have learned the good kind of discipline, your discipline that you made yourself, not one that some stiff drill sergeant beat into you. Make your own discipline, and make your own dreams come true.